1. Your best friend calls you
on Saturday morning and asks if she can come over
to pick up yesterday’s American history work sheets.
You
a. fix a bowl of cereal and settle down in front of the
television to wait. She’s seen you in pajamas before.
b. jump in the shower, throw on your cutest outfit and
quickly put on your makeup.
c. wash your face, brush your teeth and throw on a T-
shirt and jeans.
2. Your dad picks you up from school driving his brown
El Camino. The oldies station is blaring through the
rolled-down windows. You
a. wish you could crawl under a rock. You’re
humiliated!
b. sigh, turn to your friend and say, “Is your dad as
weird as my dad?”
c. don’t really care. A car is a car.
3. Your crush finally comes
around. He admits that he likes you. The only reason
he gives is because he thinks you’re cute. Are you
happy?
a. No, you’re offended that being cute is the only
reason he gave for liking you. In fact, you completely
dismiss him as a possibility. You thought he was better
than that.
b. Happy? Elated is more like it. All those extra hours
spent on lip gloss during lunch hour paid off — not to
mention your fetching finds at the mall last weekend.
c. Well, yes, but you’re also slightly confused. He didn’t
say a thing about your sense of humor or your
braininess. But cute is definitely a confidence booster.
4. You woke up late this
morning and only have 15 minutes before you leave for
school. You
a. do your daily portion for the “Read Through the Bible
With Brio” plan, brush your teeth, throw your hair
back in a pony tail and grab an apple before meeting
your carpool.
b. spend 10 minutes looking for an accessory to go
with your retro-80s skirt. Apply foundation followed by
coordinating eye shadow, eyeliner and lip gloss. Grab
two pairs of shoes (you’ll choose a pair in the car) and
run out to meet your older brother who is waiting.
c. say a quick prayer in the shower apologizing to God
for not spending more time with Him, throw on a comfy
pair of jeans and a cute sweater, and apply your lip
gloss on the way to catch the bus.
5. Your younger brother
started his first year of middle school. You’re in eighth
grade and have waited for the day when you’d
rule the school. You
a. pretend you don’t know him when he asks you for
directions to his physical science class.
b. give him the big sister talk and promise to eat lunch
with him on his first day.
c. don’t completely ignore him but steer your friends
away from his lunch table.
6. Do you and your friends
dress alike?
a. Of course! Best friends like the same things, right?
b. No. You have fashion buddies, band friends, student
council friends and sports friends. They all look
different.
c. Not sure. A shopping trip is the last thing you’d do
with your friends.
7. Your sister likes wearing
toe socks with her flip-flops. She’s been bugging
you for a while about having a sister night and wants
you to take her out for dinner. What do you do?
a. You agree if she’ll leave the socks at home.
b. You don’t even think about the socks. She’s your
one-of-a-kind sister, and of course you’ll take her to
dinner.
c. You ask if the two of you can make cookies at home.
After all, her entire wardrobe is filled with fashion faux
pas and is not appropriate for a public appearance.
8. The homecoming dance is
approaching and with that comes the pressure to have
a date — the right date. How do you find a date?
a. You drop hints to your best guy friend. You’re just
friends. He doesn’t rate too high on the cool scale, but
you just want to have fun. Maybe you can get a group to
go.
b. Turn on the flirting and become friends with the
quarterback of the football team.
c. If someone asks you, you’ll go, but if not, you’ll just
go to the game. You’d rather watch the game pressure-
free with your closest friends anyway.
9. Would you ever consider
cosmetic surgery?
a. Definitely. You’ve always thought your nose was
crooked, and if you were old enough, you’d apply for
the reality TV show Extreme Makeover.
b. Nope. There are better ways to spend money.
c. Probably not. Even if you do wish you could change
some things, whitening your teeth is probably as far as
you’d go.
10. When you’re out eating with your guy
friends you
a. eat less. You don’t want to look like a pig.
b. eat until you’re full. Who really cares what they
think?
c. barely eat. They like cleaning your plate.
Scoring
Give your answers the corresponding numeral and add
them together for your total score.
1. a = 1, b = 3, c = 2
2. a = 3, b = 2, c = 1
3. a = 1, b = 3, c = 2
4. a = 1, b = 3, c = 2
5. a = 3, b = 1, c = 2
6. a = 3, b = 2, c = 1
7. a = 2, b = 1, c = 3
8. a = 2, b = 3, c = 1
9. a = 3, b = 1, c = 2
10. a = 2, b = 1, c = 3
Image-conscious Isabelle (25
to 30 points)
You seem to be quite caught up in appearances.
Though everyone else may be concerned with her date
for the homecoming dance, the truth is it won’t really
matter in the long run. Don’t judge others by their
clothes, money or popularity, and don’t hold yourself to
the same standards. Choose to care more about what
God thinks than what others think.
Typical Teen Tara (17 to 24
points)
Most teens struggle with the urge to be popular. You’re
aware that this approach to life can be shallow if you’re
not careful. Caring about others’ opinions isn’t always
bad, and sometimes you need the affirmation of others.
Instead of focusing attention on your appearance and
the apparent popularity of others, seek to develop godly
character and encourage the same in your friends.
Blind-to-Coolness Brandi (10
to 16 points)
You’re oblivious to the popularity game most of your
peers play. This is only a good thing if you’re focused
on the right thing: God’s standard. Examine where
you’re at with self-image. If you’ve just reached a point
where you’ve decided to drop out of the “cool game”
because you’re losing, that isn’t any better than playing.
Be sure your attitude toward yourself and others reflects
how God sees people.