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In Step — Just One Girl


To most people, maybe even to herself, she was average. Typical. There was nothing unusual about her. People who passed her on the street probably didn’t do a double take. We don’t know what she was doing the day her world turned upside down. We don’t know her fears and frustrations, what exactly she prayed about or what her most intimate moments with the Lord were like. Here’s what we do know: She had a very special purpose to fulfill. To God, she wasn’t an average girl. She was a girl who was obedient, who was willing to surrender every part of her heart to His lordship. So He called her to do something she probably never dreamed of being asked to do.

With no warning, Gabriel met with Mary in Nazareth one day and asked her to be part of the story we celebrate every year, the story we see lit up in nativities in front of every church, memorialized in books, paintings and songs. We know the events: Joseph takes Mary as his wife; they go to Bethlehem; Mary gives birth in a grungy stable; the wise men visit with their gifts; there are shepherds, a star, a rotten king. The account of Christ’s birth is far more beautiful than the snowflakes feathering through the air and the Christmas lights blinking from rooftops.

But let’s go back to the part when Gabriel first surprised Mary with her special calling. As Gabriel explained the job God had hand-picked her to do, I can only imagine what ran through her mind.

Mary, of all the women on the planet, was chosen to give birth to God’s own Son, Jesus Christ. Mary asked how she could possibly be pregnant, and Gabriel explained how the virgin birth would be a miracle.

Mary responded, “I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said” (Luke 1:38).

And the adventure began.

Same Girl, Brand-New World
Mary’s world turned upside down in a matter of minutes. Even though she was ready to follow God wherever He led, she knew the journey wouldn’t be an easy one.

The journey required every ounce of her trust. The child inside her was from God. He was God in the flesh. Mary’s calling was unique and special, and some people wouldn’t get it. She chose to take God at His Word.

The journey required courage. Mary and her young family fled to Egypt to escape an evil king when Jesus was still small. She even gave birth to Him in a smelly stable. (Talk about shaking up the trust factor!) Mary could have acted in fear and frustration and begged God to choose another girl, but she didn’t. Instead, she chose to be brave.

The journey required surrender. We don’t know what Mary’s plans for her life were — her goals, her agenda, her blueprint for a happily ever after. All we know is that the moment God called her, Mary was willing to forgo any dream she had and followed God’s plan, a plan way better.

So here’s the question: What will my response be, and your response, when we’re called by God to fulfill our destinies?

Her Song, My Song
God called Mary to bring His Son into the world. That was a one-time deal! But every single day, through every season, God is looking for girls who will respond to His call the same way Mary did.

What is He calling us to do? What stirs our hearts and makes us passionate? God may be calling us to hang out with the girl who sits alone in the cafeteria or to serve Him on a foreign missions field for a few weeks. He may be calling us to end a relationship that doesn’t honor Him, to make a hard decision or to follow Him somewhere unfamiliar. Whatever the specific task, one thing is certain: God’s looking for girls who are willing to surrender to Him. The adventure He gives us in return is more wonderful than we can imagine!

The gift of life God has given us can be spent in ways that will blow our minds and impact the world for Christ. He’s looking for one girl who will choose to stand out, be brave and say, “Whatever You want, wherever You want me — I’m Your girl.”

Mary was so overcome with joy by the way God was using her that her heart erupted in praise. Take time this Christmas to read her song to God in Luke 1:46- 49.

Somewhere, Something
God calls each of us to go somewhere and do something. We aren’t here to take up space. We’re here to magnify Christ in our lives. We’re here for an adventure. In this season, we dwell in promise. We’re reminded of the day the earth rejoiced, the night one star broke through the night sky and one baby came to set the world free. From the moment He let out His first cry in the manger to the moment He let out His last cry on the Cross, Jesus was all about His Father’s business, all about us. No matter what the past year has been like, there’s healing in His arms. There’s a place where we’re wanted and loved, and He has a dream for each of us.

No gift we can ever give Him could possibly match the one He has given us, but we can, from the deepest corner of our hearts, surrender our lives to Him. Maybe our prayers this Christmas can echo a teen girl from Nazareth — I am Your servant, Lord. May it be to me as You have said.

Whatever You want, I’m Your girl.


This article appeared in Brio magazine in December 2005. Copyright © 2005 Natalie Lloyd. All rights reserved. International copyright secured.

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